Monday, May 31, 2010
THe Best Singer In Malaysia....
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
My New Look and NEW ..............
Sunday, May 23, 2010
SOME INFO FOR EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!
Happy couples don’t just have sex – they have ‘make up sex’, comfort sex”: even ‘get-to-sleep sex’..And they’re all vital in their own way.
The one thing all physically compatible couples share is a strong sexual connection. This is evident in their overall approach to sex- be it a favorite bedroom activity or their shared erotic fantasies. Here are some common sexual themes in couples. What’s yours?
1 EXPLORER SEX
There’s nothing like lying next to the man you’ve known and loved for a long time, thinking, 'wow, we have never done that before’. Sex is a bit like chocolate ice cream; it’s great the first time you eat it, but if you eat it every day, you’ll have to be a bit creative to keep it satisfying,’ says consultant psychiatrist Dr. Adrian Wang.
While it may not be possible to have passionate to try and keep things exciting. This is possible if a couple is willing to explore and push each other’s sexual boundaries. ‘Being creative in the bedroom means you’re doing things to keep your partner happy – and that, in itself, is an expression of love ‘, adds Dr Wang. ‘So if you’re only used certain positions, try a new one: if you’re used to stimulation by body parts alone, experiment with other items, for instance a feather. Communication is the key. You need to tell your partner what you need and what turns you on’
Plan for good sex; it may mean taking off together on a weekend or even buying new underwear – little things you know will put you in the right mood. Pushing your boundaries will also build trust between you two.
2 MAINTENANCE SEX
That’s where maintenance sex comes in. ‘sex is the one activity a couple has that excludes all other people, ‘explains Dr Clayton. ‘It keeps your bond unique and strong.’
By making a habit of it, you’re building opportunities for that connection in your lives. Take Michelle, 33, a mother of two toddlers. ‘My husband is always happy to have sex, but as a new mother, I’m tired all the time. But when I make the effort, I seem much closer to my husband afterwards.’ And let’s not forget how regular sex helps your health - it relieves stress, burns calories about boosts your mood.
3 EMBARRASSING MOMENT SEX
It’s bound to happen: one of you suddenly get a cramp in your leg – and shriek in pain! As embarrassing as this may be, it’s a good reminder that sex is a raw act. It’s not meant to be flawless.
Your ability to deal with a red-in-the-face moment – whether you laugh if off or give each other a sympathetic squeeze – says a lot about the strength of your bond. So don’t worry!!
4 HOLIDAY SEX
Ah, the turn-on effect of the sun, sand and sea. If your love life is getting jaded, it’s often your surroundings that are getting stale, not your partner. As you’re at your most relaxed on holidays, you tend to try most relaxed on holidays, you tend to try new things, such as having sex on an empty beach, or, like Lin, have what feels like sex in public.
5 MAKE UP SEX
It’s been said you shouldn’t go to bed angry. Sometimes, you can take that further – by going to bed happy after a quarrel,’ says Dr Clayton.
But, be warned: ‘some couples pick fights just to make up, ‘says Dr Clayton. Others ignore their real problems and have sex instead. If the only time you’re getting along is in bed, you need to face your issues with your clothes on first.
6 CUDDLE SEX
It’s the journey that really matters in life, not the destination. That is true for sex too. Every sexual experience should not be merely focused on achieving an orgasm.
In fact, this type of ‘cuddle sex’ is good for bonding. ‘Sex isn’t all about ‘finishing off’. It’s getting to the finishing line that’s important. Kissing and holding each other are important elements. Couples can give each other pleasure doing these things – even if it tires them out to the point of being too sleepy to finish off, ‘says Dr Wang.
7 COMFORT SEX
If you’re feeling sad, depressed or lonely, sex can be the perfect antidote because it’s the opposite of all those things- it’s about being warm, close loving and alive. Says Yvonne, 39, ‘last year my mother-in-law had Parkison’s disease; my father had major heart surgery and my mother developed Alzheimer’s. My husband and I spent a lot of time in bed comforting each other. For us, it was important. It makes you remember why you’re living.
‘Grief can drive a wedge between couples, ‘says Dr Clayton, nothing that partners sometimes blame themselves or each other, during a loss. ‘But sex can help restore the intimate relationship you have. Instead of letting grief pull you apart, use it to pull you closer.’
8 WILD, WILD SEX
You know the kind- wild, sweetly, dizzy sex. Dr Wang reckons that if you’re having it years into marriage, ‘you still can connect physically and emotionally and that itself is reaffirming to a couple.’And if you’re keen to have a baby, the mote sex, the merrier- so it doesn’t matter how long or how often you do the deed. Says Dr Andrew Kan, a reproductive endocrinology and infertility specialist: ‘trying out different varieties of sex also enables the couple not to think of it as a chore.’
And finally, let’s not forget how sensuous love-making keeps your eyes sparkling, your body gummy and your soul smiling – so enjoy!!
Article from The Malaysia Women’s Weekly
August 2009..
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Make Him Fall in Love - Where to Begin
Where is the best place to start if a woman is hoping to make a man fall in love? What does she need to know if she wants to be the one that makes him fall head over heels? How does she get through to him and make him realize that she is the perfect woman for him? If you want to know how to make a man fall in love, follow along with us.
Women need to understand that men often have a difficult time distinguishing between lust and love. Lust is the first emotion that men feel when they meet a new woman and it can be quite consuming. It is easy for a man to experience lust; it just happens because of desire and he does not have to put forth any effort to keep it moving along. It is powerful, and a man might believe that he is falling in love when, in reality, he is only falling for the pull of his physical desires.
However, if you are a woman that is hoping to make a man fall in love, you will have to connect with him on a much deeper level. You can never build a deep, long-lasting love if your bond is purely physical. This provides no foundation, and the emotional bond that is vital to establishing true love can never materialize.
If you really want to win this man's heart, wait for a while before you begin having sex. Give your relationship the best chance to succeed by focusing on your emotional connection first. Friendship, compassion, encouragement, and support are all necessary ingredients in all great relationships and your efforts must be placed in these areas. These provide the strength for the relationship and will be the substance that guides it through all the good and the bad times.
Sex too early on will prevent emotional bonding. It is as simple as that. Make your man fall in love with your personality and your charm, and then allow physical intimacy to enhance an already wonderful connection. This is the way to win true love.
Dinner with MULTI-linguist and television personality.
* Dato' Mahadzir Lokman, managing director of Dale Lokman Associates has a Masters degree in Business Administration from University of Ohio, USA. He joined private television station, TV3, in 1984 as presenter for English and Malay news. *
I met him during the Miss Tourism International event in Sunway Hotel. After the event we have talked at hotel lobby.. I'm so impress with his personality, very humble and talkative.. And he did share a lot of tips and knowledge to me escpecially for emceeing .. since I doing the emceeing job too, so this is good chance for me..
why him? Because he is THE BEST in the industry..
How to Know is HE Loves YOU ??
1 . A very obvious one when he takes interests in your matters like work schedule, it means he is really concerned with you and loves you.
2. Whenever a guy keeps a track on your habits, remembers whatever you do and say simply indicates his love for you.
3. When a guy wants to spend more time with you, dates out with you at places of your choice and share the your favorite pastimes then he is madly in love with you.
4. If he gives more importance to his friends even if you are sick or in need of him shows his lack of interest in you.
5. Changing of topic when you discuss about your future with him is not a good sign of a healthy relationship with your love.
6. If he doesn't want to spend time with you or don't ever want to go out with you in public and never introduces you to his friends mean he does not love you.
7. When he calls you or message you just to chitchat with you means he deeply loves you and was finding any reason to talk to you.
8. If he is really concerned about you and loves you then he would always take out time from his busy schedule.
9. When he keeps looking you when you are around and suddenly takes off his eyes when you look at him shows he's in love with you.
10. When he praises about you to his friends, family and others means he truly loves you.
11. His every action will make you believe he loves you.
12. If he changes his plans or cancels them last minute then he is surely avoiding you.
13. If he is trying to be friendly with you and tries to make an effort to know more about you shows signs of love for you.
You can make out from a person's eyes. The person in love with you has special shine in his eyes when he's talking to you.
Friday, May 14, 2010
P.S I Love You....
And of course for the movie more lovely because of Gerard Butler..awesome..
P.S : yeah yeah ... i know..i know... i'm late ..but wht can i do..only this year i gt mood to read this book...hhehehe whatever...
Monday, May 10, 2010
NINE (9) WORDS WOMEN USE........
(2) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.
(3) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.
(4) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!
(5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)
(6) That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.
(7) Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome' . That will bring on a 'whatever').
(8) Whatever: Is a woman's way of saying F-- YOU!
(9) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.
** So to all men, I warn you about arguments, you can avoid if you remember the terminology.
P/s : Allow me to laugh..hahahhahah kuang kuang kuang..heheh